Is sustained happiness truly
possible in a world where the troubles of humankind invade the
living room at the touch of the TV button. Where sometimes, the
lonely, mentally disturbed and beggars, haunt the road outside your
front door?
Most of us can look back to a happy period when he or she could
lie for hours on the grass looking at a sunny blue sky through a
patchwork of white cherry blossom - but childhood can’t last
forever.
Anthropologists tell us that the last time when the majority of the
human race was happy was when we were all hunter-gatherers. After
this, humankind was dominated first by farming, and lived in
predominantly peasant community with all its worries and
deprivations. Later the majority of people were ruled by ruthless
commercial interests, which brought with them a multitude of
complexities and troubles.
Even if unalloyed happiness can rarely be sustained, the opposite -
misery and depression - can and should be avoided. It has become
difficult to be constantly happy now we are aware of such things as
nuclear warfare, weapons of mass destruction, disease and
psychiatric illness. 
We may regret the loss of hunter-gatherer days with its low
cholesterol vitamin rich diet but we should thank our lucky stars
that we are no longer peasants toiling in a Devon field, or in
constant danger of being enlisted into military service by a feudal
landowner. Nor are we wage slaves forced into soul-destroying
factories or down lethal mines. We are fortunate. We can order our
lives as we like, controlled only by the constraints of society and
our feelings of obligation to our family. We should be grateful
that we are warm and well-fed, we can control many of our diseases
with our knowledge of hygiene and immunisation; babies can be
brought forth painlessly (in the best units) and fertility can be
controlled. Weapons of mass destruction may threaten us but
diphtheria is no longer the ever-present worry. Neighbours’
children don’t die from scarlet fever, whooping cough
isn’t a killer and our children’s form-mates are not
paralysed by polio.
Whatever the anthropologists and psychologists may say, I would opt
for life in 2004 rather than 1004. I would however beware that if I
didn’t plan my lifestyle so that I could take advantages of
the benefits of the 21st century and avoid some of its pitfalls, I
would be wasting the opportunities given to me and might fall prey
to unhappiness.
The hunter-gatherers, who lived in the anthropologists’ dream
time of happiness for all, had to live off the crab apples, rough
grain, hips and haws and anything else they could forage. We have
choice. We can choose from shelves of fruit, gathered from around
the world, so as to vary the five vegetables or fruits a day we
need to meet the target necessary for remaining healthy. We can
select from a variety of fish rich in omega 3 essential fatty
acids. We don’t have to rely on catching a squirrel or rabbit
but can enjoy a prime steak or joint of lamb (always remembering to
cut off the fat before we eat it). Nor do we have to fish, unless
for pleasure. The fishmonger’s slab will give us a greater
choice than was ever available to the hunter-gatherer and our
zinc-rich oysters can be eaten for relish, rather than sustenance.
If we worry about our vegetables being too old by the time they
reach the shelves, or our fish being too expensive we, unlike the
hunter-gatherer, can keep malnutrition at bay by taking a good
quality multi-vitamin and mineral supplement every day and fish oil
to go with it to provide the
necessary essential fatty acids. Zinc, magnesium and
selenium tablets will supplement soils over-tilled and denuded of
minerals.
Exercise was a necessity for early human-kind. Whether the
‘happy’ hunter-gatherers were defending themselves from
neighbouring unfriendly families or merely looking for the next
patch of mushrooms, they were compelled to walk. We still need to
take exercise, but it can be as a pleasure rather than a means of
evading capture or starvation. Our exercise can and should be
enjoyable, brisk without being strenuous, and should take place
every day. A lively walk daily provides enough exercise, so long as
it is, for most people, of at least half to three quarters of an
hour. For those who already know that they suffer from one or other
of the degenerative diseases such as diabetes type 2, high blood
pressure or obesity, the amount of exercise should be twice the
standard amount recommended for those who know they are
healthy.
Even if well-fed, warm and pleasantly exercised and living in a
comfortable house with a loving family, some people are not going
to be happy. They may well be suffering the loneliness of those
whose life seems depressing and even hopeless. If the symptoms are
not too severe, unhappiness rather than misery they may like to try
St John’s wort. For those whose misery is greater than this,
then a visit to their own doctor for advice may be the best way
forward.
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